Be Bold,

Love Yourself Again

Self Care Boss offers solutions to help you get back on track

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Are you feeling overwhelmed by the problems you’re facing? Self Care Boss offers solutions to help you get back on track. If you’re struggling with the heartache of a recent breakup, you may also be experiencing stomach pain, back pain, not eating, overeating, crying, staying up in the middle of the night, or snooping on your ex’s social media. Self Care Boss can help you break free from the cycle of feeling stuck in bad relationships. We offer a Get Over Your Ex 6-week program to help you move forward and define your boundaries. Additionally, our Date Smart program enables you to speak up for yourself and take control of your relationships.

Take charge of your life and get to where you want to be.

For more personalized assistance, Self Care Boss provides a premium one-on-one service and a salf-care regimen that’s customized and individualized to overcome heartache. We understand how hard it can be to move past a breakup and to feel like you’re missing something or longing for more. Self Care Boss is here to help you find the strength, power, and courage to take charge of your life and get to where you want to be.

We can start here…

Love Yourself Again

You can work with Self Care Boss to learn how to love yourself again and be bold in who you are. With the help of group coaching and one-on-one sessions, you can learn how to get over your ex and start to move the hurt and pain from your body after a breakup.

Heartache to Healing

Self Care Boss offers a 6-week program to help you overcome your ex. You can reduce and eliminate body pain through a personalized self care regimen and one-on-one premium service. In the program, you will learn to speak up for yourself, set boundaries and move for 30 days.

Date Smart

Self Care Boss’s Date Smart program helps you navigate the dating world. With this program, you can learn how to recognize bad relationships and situations, stop snooping on your ex’s social media and address the grief. Through Self Care Boss, you can learn how to date online, start to attract ideal partners, and start to heal your heartache.


What people get from the program


Make sure you prioritize your physical health and well-being. Move your body in ways that feel good to you, and be mindful of what your body is telling you.

Be intentional about how you think and speak about your body. Consciously reframe negative thoughts and practice self-compassion.
Take charge of your mental and emotional health. Make sure you take time to do what makes you feel happy, fulfilled, and inspired.
Practice radical self-responsibility by deciding what’s best for you rather than trying to please others.
Bring your authentic self to your relationships and conversations. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and trust yourself to handle whatever comes your way.

The part where you said we’ve been evicted was so clear. That’s a huge slap to the face. I realized my ex doesn’t want me in their life. They are no longer seeking for me. You made me see this.

– Amy

You really put on a phenomenal workshop. This was the first time I smiled while crying. I felt the releases and this group was super supportive. Don’t ever stop providing this workshop.

– Adelina

You got me to dance and that motivated me to move on after my breakup.

– George

Follow these easy steps…

Step 1

Book an Action Call

Step 2

Register for the monthly Get Over Your Ex workshop

Step 3

Sign up for the Get Over Your Ex program

Meet Elmira Loftin

I used to do massage therapy. Massage was my gateway drug to healing modalities. I discovered my own personal traumas by doing massages for other people. I noticed how emotions affect the body – the heart, digestion, thinking, and even relationships. It was a natural progression because my clients would stay for 3 hours during their massage sessions. We resolved relationship issues and detailed some things to do with self-care. Most of all, I held clients accountable for their crap and self-care goals. I started to see amazing results not only with the massage but with the coaching.

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